What if?

Why do you continue to ask yourself "what if this doesn't work?"

You assume the worst.

Instead, begin to ask yourself this:

“What if this doesn’t work?”

Self-doubt can eat away at the most successful people. Asking this sets you up for failure. Of course it’s always important to have a back-up plan, and a back-up to you back-up plan, and a back-up for the back-up to you back-up plan.

But WHY do we always assume the worst ?

Attitude plays an enormous role in how we perceive ourselves and others. It can also set us up for failure or success. If you tell yourself it’s not going to work out, it probably won’t. But if you believe in your own strengths and abilities and capacity to achieve success, who knows what you can accomplish. Venting can be healthy, and a little complaining here and there is okay, but your words don’t enact change. Allow your words to transpire into positive actions.

We need to start asking ourselves: “What if this actually works?”

What happens if you get what you want. Where are you gonna go from there. How do you continue to move forward? I don’t have the answers, but all I’m saying is BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. You can do this. Attitude is at least 90% of the battle. So get your head in the game.

Failure isn’t a bad thing. I am a firm believer that we can always learn from our failures, but we must begin to learn from our successes as well. Trust the process and know in your heart that things will work out. And if it doesn’t work? Scratch that. It WILL work out.

Kindness and care,

Chloe